Thursday 19 April 2012

HERE'S TO - TWO TRYSTING IN THAILAND!

BANGKOK

Think New York City, superimposed into Asia! Very fun  and we've wandered for hours exploring the awesome transportation system with MRT (Metro Rail) and sky train. And tuk tuk and taxi, AND boat trips on the river.

* Yummy street food our fav:  chicken and pork satay, safe and North American friendly....We agree to challenge our comfort zone a little:   include unique tidbits like grilled or deep fried beetles, ants, and grubs. Looking for snake steak too. The deal is we buy a diverse selection e.g. a few of each for each of us to fight over.  Stay tuned.   On a brave day. Soon.

* EVERYWHERE:   there are fashionable, thin, teeny tiny people.   Thousands of them, like graceful and lovely ants.  The females have an average BMI of .2% body fat, I swear they DO NOT SWEAT.  Perfect make-up, dark hair sleek and shining, and falling gracefully around shoulders.  They stroll through the malls, metro and sidewalks teetering confidently on 7" Jimmy Choos worth my (current) annual income, lovingly clinging to a metrosexual boyfriend  ever so casually attaired head to pointy toe in  Gucci... they smile prettily at the boyfriend while daintly texting on the newest Apple IPOD 5, with a perfectly manicured left hand, baby finger only.   I am amazed at the sight. It's like visiting another planet. I want to ask:  'how did THIS happen to you?'   "How do you DO it?"  "Is it, like a full time job?"  Wow.... And if they happen to look my way I'm sure they would think the same thing about me!

Shopping:  See my Jimmy Choo's hand bags?   No? Well you will! 

FYI   Fashion coming to you soon:  sheer tinted material loose fitting tunic tops over dresses, tights, etc, and see through skirts from nylon or lacy material over mini or shorter skirts.  That's all I've noticed to date... more (maybe) to come!

* Gee we're glad to be travel savvy, experienced travellers - to date we've been pick-pocketed two times:  My (sob) IPOD in Nepal and Jim's  new REI day pack at Mo Chit, Bangkok's biggest weekend market.   We ARE smart enough to NOT have our wallets,, passports, camera, and Jim's IPOD in the pack.

* Bangkok's Mercy Hospital:  casually wandered in to have Jim's lipoma (benign tumor on his back) assessed by a surgeon, just a vague thought of POSSIBLY accessing medical services here.   For us it is a preliminary exploration only. Unknown to us, it is serious business... as soon as we cross the threshold we are sucked into a vortex of Thai hospitality, tourism health care industry and health care professionals at our beck and call .  Sooner than you can say 'Mastercard' Jim finds himself strapped into a wheelchair and in the OR  - within 2 hours.


Post-op:   I personally think he suits robin egg blue and should have been a Doctor!

There was no waiting, the beautifully dressed and made-up greeter pounced on us and had Jim's name, passport copy, hotel information and Jim's medical 'issue' fully documented before the sweat dried on our shirts.  We were advised he could see the surgeon immediately. And he did.  His savings for the proceedure: about 30% USD (estimate was $3000, Jim's total here $900)
Me: I had zero intentions of doing anything. But Busy Mouth Jim in Surgery just happened to mention an issue with a my back molar... and Four hours later I've consulted with a skin specialist re a varicous vein on my leg (treatment about 30% of Canada's) and assessed by a dentist, complete with Xray on my troublesome tooth.. total cost $17. Jim is out of surgery....  And we find our selves back out on the street slightly bewildered,farily impressed, and several dollars lighter.

So.. we explore a local market.... 3 blocks from the hospital look what we find!
Gee I think I want chicken satay thanks....



These I like these much more... sweet yummy pineapple!



WOMEN'S PRISON FOOT MASSAGE



The Thai Princess is instrumental in setting up the women's program including a restaurant  (cooking and serving, and massage clinic.  Inmates attend a 2 month Thai Massage course the last 4 months of their sentence they work in the massage clinic.  They earn 50% of the fee which goes towards a fund for their release.  It was a very fun - and majorly refreshing after a hot sweaty day on a heritage walk in the downtown city area.  Have to admit to great reservations regarding full body or back or neck or ..... massage.  In my book 2 months of superficial massage training does not qualify ANYONE to crack my bones, manipulate joints and prod nerves!
  

.Overnight Train:  from Bangkok to Chiang Mai.  we have no idea what happened in the middle of
the night but our arrival in Chiang Mai was over 2 hours late and 15 hours after departing Bangkok.
Beds: the bottom bunk mattress was almost a full regular sized single bed! And the mattresses are at
least twice as thick as India trains   Almost as good but no chai tea and no transvisties shaking down
 the local men for a pay off to get rid of them  We totally got the giggles when breakfast time comes
along and we start peparing our meal. The very polite and proper middle aged lady sitting across
 from us was astounded by our performance and self contained equipment and food:
*  first, my handy dandy electical water wand, (thanks Suzan, it's STILL working!) plugged into an outlet near the floor and within seconds
* water is bubbling happily in my MEC stainless steel coffee pot
* water effeciently mixed with instant coffee
* followed by two folded tupperwear bowls  being popped open on the table, with a folding spoon
also clicked open
*  pour in Muesli cereal, topped with instant milk,, dribble half cup of water and mix.
* Sliced bananas, peeled oranges, and a few mangostene
* a few yummy danish items - making sure we're not TOO healthy

Good thing we didn't need to take out the steripen to water filter!!!! 

and onward we go, for hours and hours passing perfect little train stops, with flower pots, neat walkways and buildings.  I often think of Isaiah - the train guy in the family! He would love the trip!

Here is Jim sitting by a lovely view - happy in Second Class Air Con, Berth -  thanks much!



CHAING MAI


Portable bar - fully equipped with ice, all variety of liquer and mixes even with fresh limes and mint
leaves for a Mojeto.. little wooden stools to seat 10 -12 patrons gathered around the back of the pick up.  Totally fun, nice vibe with music playing and patio lights draped oround the roof.  Enjoyed visiting with 4 travellers from Switzerland, with their opening comment to the bartender:  "we've been looing for the bar! you moved it 40 meters down the street'! before they settled on a stool and made themselves at home!

 

ELEPHANT TOUR

Oh, I have lots to say about this! Many thoughts about our visit with the elephants.  Jim was thrilled with the whole experience and his thoughts are that the elephants are being well cared for, and learning tricks like playing soccer, sitting down like a teddy bear on their hind quarters, performing like Gumbo, and having tourists sit on their trunks, etc is good for them. Learning tricks and performing is much better for them than being idle.  And they are SO smart!!!  It is amazing to see what they can learn and do. 



A two year old baby - how adorable can he be?



My thoughts - these incredible, powerful, very intelligent mammals have been abused for centuries, and their population is rapidly decreasing.  I wouldn't want to guess how many are left in the wild.  Unfortunately I believe the only way they will survive as a species IS in captivity or in protected national parks (even then poaching continues).  It bothers me to see them chained, pacing on the spot back and forth repeatedly...  performing tricks on command, and having tourists (including me ride them, maul them, treat them as a circus side show).  Where and how do we draw the line?  There are several Elephant Camps that say they are educating people about elephants and their needs, and do not have them perform tricks or any of the other aspects of exploting them. They charge a lot of money so it's difficult to support their efforts and I would still wonder if it REALLY is humane?   However, elephants clearly need protection from us, and to live  they require a ton of food each day, and food costs money, and money comes from people, and so elephants work for people to earn money to feed themselves. ugh I get it.

But I want them all to be free, in the jungle, safe from poachers but be able to see them in the wild, living in their community like they are meant to be. I would be happy to give up the ride, the paintings, sitting on their knees, seeing them play soccer please Santa can I have elephants freed this year for Christmas?  Oh and tigers too. please.






ELEPHANT ARTIST - PAINTINGS ARE SOLD STARTING AT $30/EACH.   IF only I could paint half as well! Proceeds go to the expense of elephant care.






Sailor Jim - steering the raft - briefly! Tally HO!

ORCHID FARM
So pretty! So many photos!  Thinking of Brenda and John Davis, both of whom love orchids.... my favourite photo:

KAYAN LONG NECKED TRIBE

Burmase refugees -  The women wear heavy brass coils starting about age 7 as a beauty statement.  The coils depress the collar bone and rib cage, which makes their necks look unnaturally long.  The women take them off at will and their seems to be no health issues associated with wearing them.  The Kayan villages rely on tourism to survive. 

I gave feedback to the tour guide about the village and way the shops are set up and the goods they are trying to sell.   She promised to pass the information on to the village and to hopefully help.  There are about 25 little shops, which are open on 3 sides with a bamboo roof covering them. Each shop sells exactly the same scarves and other souveniers, with no variety in design, color, or fabric. 
Good thing we're only here for a few days! It would be an amazing project to work with the women and figure out what some options might be.  They are lovely, quiet and gentle people who desparately need help.  The families depend on the women selling to tourists and the men working as labourers for the Thais.








Monday 2 April 2012

Nepal - Completing the Conclusion!!!!

Having a nagging sense of a job not well done? Yep that's me - with haunting and lingering events, thoughts and feelings about my Nepal visit:

The bus from Namobuddha, the generous offer of seats that Kathy and I declined!



Namobuddha, young monks lining up for a photo shoot. The youngest could not wait to crowd in for a North American Hug!
* Flu - like symptoms (similar to what the children had at school! Perhaps will share with Jim?) the last two days in Nepal sere a little challenging, missed two classes

* Last day of school:  Tswang caught me as I was leaving.  A big 'good-by', with gifts of a hand made bracelete, a red string blessing 'necklace' and a beautiful hand drawn card and even more lovely - a warm hug and smile....



Restaurant:   buff momo's with Tsewang!!!!

*  Choruses of 'thank you SHERRIEEE, and Good Bye SHERRIEE from two classes of Grade One students followed me out the door!


*  Went to the school at 5 pm to see if Shirley was around (she flew in the afternoon before I left), as I was leaving I hear above me, 3rd floor of the boarding home:  It's Sherriee! Sheriee!!!! from one of the guys, and within 2 seconds two floors of balconies are loaded with 10 - 14 students each waving and screaming 'hello','come back', and 'good-bye'!!  I couldn't help smiling and laughing at them, what a greeting! What a warm good-bye! 

* One of those memories that stick with me:  The Grade One classes write exams for admittance into Grade 2 consisting of  5 Subjects with each being 2.5 hours long.   Miss Poulsbo (teacher) posts the exam schedule on the cork board  18 students crowd around it... one little girl about 7 years old is beside a larger 12 year old - they look at each other in delight.  They are soooo happy!  Why? I ask.  The little one looks at me with round brown eyes and very seriously explains:  the Nepalese exam is scheduled on the last day, that is so good because it is very very difficult...(extra study time!)

* Am very happy I visited Nepal and am so lucky I spent time at the school.  In terms of the little bit of money I'm donating in support of one student's future - it could not go to a better place = Happy Heart!  Their education and care is excellent.


* IPOD - 'walked' away... no longer in my possession.  Perhaps a lesson in non-attachment?  Oh the suffering though! Life continues but it is rather sobering to realize how much I still reach for it every day.  Am I in a better position being the 'victim' of theft than the thief though?  Maybe every time someone admires his/her (MY) IPOD they will get a pang of guilt?  I think so. 

* MY Impression of Nepal:  a country surviving in helpless apathy, living with a pervasive sense of mild depression, people with hearts of kindness and warmth, so many NGO's they seem to overlap in services (how much money comes in and where does it really really go???).

The roads are apalling, public education just as bad, and air pollution in Kathmandu Valley competes with India (and a recent study states India's air is worse than China's).  People talk about the overwhelming government corruption here as well. How to change it?  Very difficult. No wonder people feel so helpless.   

Tibet is  so close here.  For one week around the Boudha Stupa police presence was thick as fleas on an Indonesian street dog, due to anniversary of Tibetian political situation. They were dressed in full riot gear - and this is a Buddist spiritual centre!!!!  Word on the street is they were arresting some of the monks. Go figure.  People whisper, they do not speak out loud.  Free Speech is not a right. 

Violence against women stats are terrible and of course the real figures would be much worse.  One young woman, married for 2 years with a 1 year old son told me she is so unhappy in her marriage she doesn't know what to do, she cannot do anything without her husband's permission, and he hits her frequently (he is employed in a very good position so poverty is not such an issue for this family).  Her words:  'we don't have freedom here in Nepal, and I don't have freedom in my own home or my life either'. 

* Newly implimented SLE (School Leaving Certificate) exams by the government, newspaper articles as follows:

- Two examinees gave birth in the examination hall, one as she recieved her English Question paper.  They were provided with an extra hour to complete the exam... (generous, is it not?!!!! ugh)

- A fake examinee was arrested by police ...

- Student from a secondary school attacked and chased the Head Master - saying his form was not completed (after he 'gave'   the HM 3000 R to complete it) and therefore was unable to write the exam

- 3 fake students arrested: one man writing in place of his wife, and 2 men writing for other people.

- 3 students fainted during exams.  They were provided with 1.5 hours extra to complete the exams.
  Gee guess the two moms should have fainted after giving birth?

- Stones pelted:  Guardians at a Secondary School were pelted when they failed to assist the examinees to cheat in the exam (with 20 minutes remaining of exam time)

- 3 invigilators and 50 examinees expelled from exam centres (no mention why)

- 2 Invigilators from exam centres arrested while copying the answer to distribuate to examinees

* Power 'Load Shedding':  power outages - as dictated by water supplies = power supplies.  Celebration time now as there is about 12 hours hydro a day. Local newspaper interview with people on the street asked what they are doing with the extra power supply, answers include: taking advantage of it by downloading music, studying, and reading at night....

It's too bad, but I was ready to leave Nepal.  The nights were so long - think about it: It's dark by 6 pm, the 'action' in town stops by 7 - 8 pm. There is no heat in the rooms, no TV, the lights are off most of the time (the generator supplied one dim light in the bedroom yes I am grateful for that!), frequently not able to shower at night because of no warm water (depends on solar power and how much laundry was done at the hotel), and it is SO cold at night ..... It was terribly lonely as well.  My days were fun at the school, but anyone I met at the hotel were very transient, leaving within 2 - 3 days.

Like Emma, I love the kids and they are so worth every effort towards their education, shelter, and general well being.

'my morning'  Grade One Class


Their Favorite Song taught by Canadian Sherry

You Are My Sunshine (Happy Version)

You are my sunshinte, my only sunshine
you make me happy when skies are grey
You'll never know dear
How much I love you
Please don't take my sunshine away

The other day dear as I was walking
I knew I had you in the sky
When I looked up dear I saw you shining
and I touched my heart, and I smiled

(replaced THIS verse!!!: 
The other night dear as I was sleeping
I dreamed I had you in my arms
When I awoke dear, I was mistaken
and I hung my head and I cried...)  deemed WAY too sad!  Hopefully they will never sing my version to another North American!


March 22, 2012:   EAST MEETS WEST.. LOOK WHO I FOUND IN BANGKOK ???