Thursday, 19 April 2012

HERE'S TO - TWO TRYSTING IN THAILAND!

BANGKOK

Think New York City, superimposed into Asia! Very fun  and we've wandered for hours exploring the awesome transportation system with MRT (Metro Rail) and sky train. And tuk tuk and taxi, AND boat trips on the river.

* Yummy street food our fav:  chicken and pork satay, safe and North American friendly....We agree to challenge our comfort zone a little:   include unique tidbits like grilled or deep fried beetles, ants, and grubs. Looking for snake steak too. The deal is we buy a diverse selection e.g. a few of each for each of us to fight over.  Stay tuned.   On a brave day. Soon.

* EVERYWHERE:   there are fashionable, thin, teeny tiny people.   Thousands of them, like graceful and lovely ants.  The females have an average BMI of .2% body fat, I swear they DO NOT SWEAT.  Perfect make-up, dark hair sleek and shining, and falling gracefully around shoulders.  They stroll through the malls, metro and sidewalks teetering confidently on 7" Jimmy Choos worth my (current) annual income, lovingly clinging to a metrosexual boyfriend  ever so casually attaired head to pointy toe in  Gucci... they smile prettily at the boyfriend while daintly texting on the newest Apple IPOD 5, with a perfectly manicured left hand, baby finger only.   I am amazed at the sight. It's like visiting another planet. I want to ask:  'how did THIS happen to you?'   "How do you DO it?"  "Is it, like a full time job?"  Wow.... And if they happen to look my way I'm sure they would think the same thing about me!

Shopping:  See my Jimmy Choo's hand bags?   No? Well you will! 

FYI   Fashion coming to you soon:  sheer tinted material loose fitting tunic tops over dresses, tights, etc, and see through skirts from nylon or lacy material over mini or shorter skirts.  That's all I've noticed to date... more (maybe) to come!

* Gee we're glad to be travel savvy, experienced travellers - to date we've been pick-pocketed two times:  My (sob) IPOD in Nepal and Jim's  new REI day pack at Mo Chit, Bangkok's biggest weekend market.   We ARE smart enough to NOT have our wallets,, passports, camera, and Jim's IPOD in the pack.

* Bangkok's Mercy Hospital:  casually wandered in to have Jim's lipoma (benign tumor on his back) assessed by a surgeon, just a vague thought of POSSIBLY accessing medical services here.   For us it is a preliminary exploration only. Unknown to us, it is serious business... as soon as we cross the threshold we are sucked into a vortex of Thai hospitality, tourism health care industry and health care professionals at our beck and call .  Sooner than you can say 'Mastercard' Jim finds himself strapped into a wheelchair and in the OR  - within 2 hours.


Post-op:   I personally think he suits robin egg blue and should have been a Doctor!

There was no waiting, the beautifully dressed and made-up greeter pounced on us and had Jim's name, passport copy, hotel information and Jim's medical 'issue' fully documented before the sweat dried on our shirts.  We were advised he could see the surgeon immediately. And he did.  His savings for the proceedure: about 30% USD (estimate was $3000, Jim's total here $900)
Me: I had zero intentions of doing anything. But Busy Mouth Jim in Surgery just happened to mention an issue with a my back molar... and Four hours later I've consulted with a skin specialist re a varicous vein on my leg (treatment about 30% of Canada's) and assessed by a dentist, complete with Xray on my troublesome tooth.. total cost $17. Jim is out of surgery....  And we find our selves back out on the street slightly bewildered,farily impressed, and several dollars lighter.

So.. we explore a local market.... 3 blocks from the hospital look what we find!
Gee I think I want chicken satay thanks....



These I like these much more... sweet yummy pineapple!



WOMEN'S PRISON FOOT MASSAGE



The Thai Princess is instrumental in setting up the women's program including a restaurant  (cooking and serving, and massage clinic.  Inmates attend a 2 month Thai Massage course the last 4 months of their sentence they work in the massage clinic.  They earn 50% of the fee which goes towards a fund for their release.  It was a very fun - and majorly refreshing after a hot sweaty day on a heritage walk in the downtown city area.  Have to admit to great reservations regarding full body or back or neck or ..... massage.  In my book 2 months of superficial massage training does not qualify ANYONE to crack my bones, manipulate joints and prod nerves!
  

.Overnight Train:  from Bangkok to Chiang Mai.  we have no idea what happened in the middle of
the night but our arrival in Chiang Mai was over 2 hours late and 15 hours after departing Bangkok.
Beds: the bottom bunk mattress was almost a full regular sized single bed! And the mattresses are at
least twice as thick as India trains   Almost as good but no chai tea and no transvisties shaking down
 the local men for a pay off to get rid of them  We totally got the giggles when breakfast time comes
along and we start peparing our meal. The very polite and proper middle aged lady sitting across
 from us was astounded by our performance and self contained equipment and food:
*  first, my handy dandy electical water wand, (thanks Suzan, it's STILL working!) plugged into an outlet near the floor and within seconds
* water is bubbling happily in my MEC stainless steel coffee pot
* water effeciently mixed with instant coffee
* followed by two folded tupperwear bowls  being popped open on the table, with a folding spoon
also clicked open
*  pour in Muesli cereal, topped with instant milk,, dribble half cup of water and mix.
* Sliced bananas, peeled oranges, and a few mangostene
* a few yummy danish items - making sure we're not TOO healthy

Good thing we didn't need to take out the steripen to water filter!!!! 

and onward we go, for hours and hours passing perfect little train stops, with flower pots, neat walkways and buildings.  I often think of Isaiah - the train guy in the family! He would love the trip!

Here is Jim sitting by a lovely view - happy in Second Class Air Con, Berth -  thanks much!



CHAING MAI


Portable bar - fully equipped with ice, all variety of liquer and mixes even with fresh limes and mint
leaves for a Mojeto.. little wooden stools to seat 10 -12 patrons gathered around the back of the pick up.  Totally fun, nice vibe with music playing and patio lights draped oround the roof.  Enjoyed visiting with 4 travellers from Switzerland, with their opening comment to the bartender:  "we've been looing for the bar! you moved it 40 meters down the street'! before they settled on a stool and made themselves at home!

 

ELEPHANT TOUR

Oh, I have lots to say about this! Many thoughts about our visit with the elephants.  Jim was thrilled with the whole experience and his thoughts are that the elephants are being well cared for, and learning tricks like playing soccer, sitting down like a teddy bear on their hind quarters, performing like Gumbo, and having tourists sit on their trunks, etc is good for them. Learning tricks and performing is much better for them than being idle.  And they are SO smart!!!  It is amazing to see what they can learn and do. 



A two year old baby - how adorable can he be?



My thoughts - these incredible, powerful, very intelligent mammals have been abused for centuries, and their population is rapidly decreasing.  I wouldn't want to guess how many are left in the wild.  Unfortunately I believe the only way they will survive as a species IS in captivity or in protected national parks (even then poaching continues).  It bothers me to see them chained, pacing on the spot back and forth repeatedly...  performing tricks on command, and having tourists (including me ride them, maul them, treat them as a circus side show).  Where and how do we draw the line?  There are several Elephant Camps that say they are educating people about elephants and their needs, and do not have them perform tricks or any of the other aspects of exploting them. They charge a lot of money so it's difficult to support their efforts and I would still wonder if it REALLY is humane?   However, elephants clearly need protection from us, and to live  they require a ton of food each day, and food costs money, and money comes from people, and so elephants work for people to earn money to feed themselves. ugh I get it.

But I want them all to be free, in the jungle, safe from poachers but be able to see them in the wild, living in their community like they are meant to be. I would be happy to give up the ride, the paintings, sitting on their knees, seeing them play soccer please Santa can I have elephants freed this year for Christmas?  Oh and tigers too. please.






ELEPHANT ARTIST - PAINTINGS ARE SOLD STARTING AT $30/EACH.   IF only I could paint half as well! Proceeds go to the expense of elephant care.






Sailor Jim - steering the raft - briefly! Tally HO!

ORCHID FARM
So pretty! So many photos!  Thinking of Brenda and John Davis, both of whom love orchids.... my favourite photo:

KAYAN LONG NECKED TRIBE

Burmase refugees -  The women wear heavy brass coils starting about age 7 as a beauty statement.  The coils depress the collar bone and rib cage, which makes their necks look unnaturally long.  The women take them off at will and their seems to be no health issues associated with wearing them.  The Kayan villages rely on tourism to survive. 

I gave feedback to the tour guide about the village and way the shops are set up and the goods they are trying to sell.   She promised to pass the information on to the village and to hopefully help.  There are about 25 little shops, which are open on 3 sides with a bamboo roof covering them. Each shop sells exactly the same scarves and other souveniers, with no variety in design, color, or fabric. 
Good thing we're only here for a few days! It would be an amazing project to work with the women and figure out what some options might be.  They are lovely, quiet and gentle people who desparately need help.  The families depend on the women selling to tourists and the men working as labourers for the Thais.








Monday, 2 April 2012

Nepal - Completing the Conclusion!!!!

Having a nagging sense of a job not well done? Yep that's me - with haunting and lingering events, thoughts and feelings about my Nepal visit:

The bus from Namobuddha, the generous offer of seats that Kathy and I declined!



Namobuddha, young monks lining up for a photo shoot. The youngest could not wait to crowd in for a North American Hug!
* Flu - like symptoms (similar to what the children had at school! Perhaps will share with Jim?) the last two days in Nepal sere a little challenging, missed two classes

* Last day of school:  Tswang caught me as I was leaving.  A big 'good-by', with gifts of a hand made bracelete, a red string blessing 'necklace' and a beautiful hand drawn card and even more lovely - a warm hug and smile....



Restaurant:   buff momo's with Tsewang!!!!

*  Choruses of 'thank you SHERRIEEE, and Good Bye SHERRIEE from two classes of Grade One students followed me out the door!


*  Went to the school at 5 pm to see if Shirley was around (she flew in the afternoon before I left), as I was leaving I hear above me, 3rd floor of the boarding home:  It's Sherriee! Sheriee!!!! from one of the guys, and within 2 seconds two floors of balconies are loaded with 10 - 14 students each waving and screaming 'hello','come back', and 'good-bye'!!  I couldn't help smiling and laughing at them, what a greeting! What a warm good-bye! 

* One of those memories that stick with me:  The Grade One classes write exams for admittance into Grade 2 consisting of  5 Subjects with each being 2.5 hours long.   Miss Poulsbo (teacher) posts the exam schedule on the cork board  18 students crowd around it... one little girl about 7 years old is beside a larger 12 year old - they look at each other in delight.  They are soooo happy!  Why? I ask.  The little one looks at me with round brown eyes and very seriously explains:  the Nepalese exam is scheduled on the last day, that is so good because it is very very difficult...(extra study time!)

* Am very happy I visited Nepal and am so lucky I spent time at the school.  In terms of the little bit of money I'm donating in support of one student's future - it could not go to a better place = Happy Heart!  Their education and care is excellent.


* IPOD - 'walked' away... no longer in my possession.  Perhaps a lesson in non-attachment?  Oh the suffering though! Life continues but it is rather sobering to realize how much I still reach for it every day.  Am I in a better position being the 'victim' of theft than the thief though?  Maybe every time someone admires his/her (MY) IPOD they will get a pang of guilt?  I think so. 

* MY Impression of Nepal:  a country surviving in helpless apathy, living with a pervasive sense of mild depression, people with hearts of kindness and warmth, so many NGO's they seem to overlap in services (how much money comes in and where does it really really go???).

The roads are apalling, public education just as bad, and air pollution in Kathmandu Valley competes with India (and a recent study states India's air is worse than China's).  People talk about the overwhelming government corruption here as well. How to change it?  Very difficult. No wonder people feel so helpless.   

Tibet is  so close here.  For one week around the Boudha Stupa police presence was thick as fleas on an Indonesian street dog, due to anniversary of Tibetian political situation. They were dressed in full riot gear - and this is a Buddist spiritual centre!!!!  Word on the street is they were arresting some of the monks. Go figure.  People whisper, they do not speak out loud.  Free Speech is not a right. 

Violence against women stats are terrible and of course the real figures would be much worse.  One young woman, married for 2 years with a 1 year old son told me she is so unhappy in her marriage she doesn't know what to do, she cannot do anything without her husband's permission, and he hits her frequently (he is employed in a very good position so poverty is not such an issue for this family).  Her words:  'we don't have freedom here in Nepal, and I don't have freedom in my own home or my life either'. 

* Newly implimented SLE (School Leaving Certificate) exams by the government, newspaper articles as follows:

- Two examinees gave birth in the examination hall, one as she recieved her English Question paper.  They were provided with an extra hour to complete the exam... (generous, is it not?!!!! ugh)

- A fake examinee was arrested by police ...

- Student from a secondary school attacked and chased the Head Master - saying his form was not completed (after he 'gave'   the HM 3000 R to complete it) and therefore was unable to write the exam

- 3 fake students arrested: one man writing in place of his wife, and 2 men writing for other people.

- 3 students fainted during exams.  They were provided with 1.5 hours extra to complete the exams.
  Gee guess the two moms should have fainted after giving birth?

- Stones pelted:  Guardians at a Secondary School were pelted when they failed to assist the examinees to cheat in the exam (with 20 minutes remaining of exam time)

- 3 invigilators and 50 examinees expelled from exam centres (no mention why)

- 2 Invigilators from exam centres arrested while copying the answer to distribuate to examinees

* Power 'Load Shedding':  power outages - as dictated by water supplies = power supplies.  Celebration time now as there is about 12 hours hydro a day. Local newspaper interview with people on the street asked what they are doing with the extra power supply, answers include: taking advantage of it by downloading music, studying, and reading at night....

It's too bad, but I was ready to leave Nepal.  The nights were so long - think about it: It's dark by 6 pm, the 'action' in town stops by 7 - 8 pm. There is no heat in the rooms, no TV, the lights are off most of the time (the generator supplied one dim light in the bedroom yes I am grateful for that!), frequently not able to shower at night because of no warm water (depends on solar power and how much laundry was done at the hotel), and it is SO cold at night ..... It was terribly lonely as well.  My days were fun at the school, but anyone I met at the hotel were very transient, leaving within 2 - 3 days.

Like Emma, I love the kids and they are so worth every effort towards their education, shelter, and general well being.

'my morning'  Grade One Class


Their Favorite Song taught by Canadian Sherry

You Are My Sunshine (Happy Version)

You are my sunshinte, my only sunshine
you make me happy when skies are grey
You'll never know dear
How much I love you
Please don't take my sunshine away

The other day dear as I was walking
I knew I had you in the sky
When I looked up dear I saw you shining
and I touched my heart, and I smiled

(replaced THIS verse!!!: 
The other night dear as I was sleeping
I dreamed I had you in my arms
When I awoke dear, I was mistaken
and I hung my head and I cried...)  deemed WAY too sad!  Hopefully they will never sing my version to another North American!


March 22, 2012:   EAST MEETS WEST.. LOOK WHO I FOUND IN BANGKOK ???

Tuesday, 20 March 2012

NEPAL....CONTINUED and CONCLUDED!

Oh - Oh Where oh Where to Start?  For sure NOT at the beginning eg.  March 4!  If I had promised a chronological accounting of events and travels I would totally pass on accounting for my travels and just find myself a cold lassi (or beer)!  Here goes:

* Tsewang Visit on Saturday March 17: 

14 years old, lovely and ever so serious!  Mom died of cancer 1.5 years ago and she left her village at 8 years old.  Tsewang wants visit but it's one day by bus followed by 5 days trekking/walking... she hasn't been back since leaving 5 years ago. She has an older brother still there with his wife and children.  Tsewang is very bright and tutors other students in her Math class. 

She was very sure she 'didn't need anything' when I asked if there  was something she needed..  I ask YOU what 14 year old girl 'doesn't need anything' ????!!!  So we went 'window shopping' and well surprise surprise...  'oh look at these yoga pants..(I ask her) I Love wearing these... and they look so pretty and comfy with the hot pink band around the hips and waist'.... She agrees, yes they are verrry nice... Next question 'why don't you try them on?'  This she cannot resist, and into the change room she goes!  With some tough bargaining between the two of us we get the sales clerk down to 50% off.  Back onto the street we go.  Tsewang is thrilled with her one pair of pants.  Then I ask her if she likes the t-shirts on display in another store... she is now helpless.  In she goes and like a typical 14 year old girl anywhere she falls in love with a white top covered in HOT PINK hearts!  Following our shopping spree for a total price tag of $9 CND, we have lunch at her choice - a very small local 'restaurant' serving  Momo's.  To my surprise she orders 'buf' (buffalo/yak?) momo's, and gobbles them up like there is no tomorrow.   I am agape.  She confirms the Buddist school is vegetarian, and I am silent  I dearly hope I inadvertently have not overstepped boundaries with the school but at this point there is nothing I can do!  She eats them like there's no tomorrow! gulp.  I am quiet and assume she will be (quiet) as well.  

After the first hour and half, we start discussing all sorts of subjects and it's fun when she finally loosens up just a little (not TOO much), and shares some of her thoughts.  I also observe and appreciate her trust when she comes out of the change room to do a modest twirl to show me tops, looking with big brown eyes, questioning:   'what do you think?'.  What I REALLY think is: okkkay is that top with the hot pink hearts, and a little scoop neck gonna be ok at the Buddist School?  Instead I inquire:  humm that looks very nice on you, will you be able to wear it to school?  She enthusiastically nods her head and I defer to both her and the school to figure it out.  We go to the till... 'how much?' we ask the reply R 750.  She looks terribly shocked, shakes her head and goes 'tsk, tsk' clicking her tongue.  I play along and look appalled.  We get the price down to R 450 and dance out of the store!   Next:  she teaches me about the 108 candles on display on the streets.... if you are interested, you have to ask!!  We talk about games, she tells me about how her and her family would play cards on New Years Day and she really loved it.  Also said does not play cards at the school as it's considered gambling. But she does a lot of other activities that she loves...

*  Meeting 'Kathy' a nurse from Hong Kong:

We meet at Namobuddha and hit it off.  Very nice to have her company and learn about her (I sob) trekking experiences in Nepal.  She hopes to travel into Tibet but the political situation is not supportive right now. When the time comes to leave Namobuddha we head for an early  local bus.  We sit in billowing dust along the road, and then our bus rounds the corner. we both react at the sight of 20+ guys riding on the top and the inside is so packed people have various body parts draped out the windows.  I DON'T *&%$$ THINK SO!!! The guys on top indicate there is room for us and start shuffling themselves around to indicate their helpfulness.  They are bewildered when we decline.   

Back up the hill to hire a taxi.  VERY Expensive as  they come from Kathmandu and it takes 2 - 3 hours to travel the 40 kms, including the death defying (depends who is driving, MY betel spitting taxi driver is not recommended - see below) 8 kms pot holed, narrow, dusty and very steep trail up the mountain to Namobuddha).  We approach a jeep in the parking lot, and its monk driver asking if it's heading down the mountain... well don't ya know he is a Travel Angel (they come in all sizes and and dress you know!) and we have a ride all the way to Kathmandu, right to the door of my hotel!  No charge, but I am so pleased to make a generous donation to the monestary.

* Taxi TO Namobuddha from Bhathatpor (bad, wrong spelling but you don't know it) rapidly became a trip from hell. My previously noble, courteous, and cautious driver arranged by Lame Pema in Bouddha has suddenly turned into a betel/pan chewing and spitting manic who weaves around corners as he constantly takes calls on his cell.  I try a gentle but direct approach to reflect my nicely balanced spiritual mind following 4 days in the mountain retreat.  It doesn't last.  We narrowly miss a bus and motorbike while rounding a corner and the Buddha zone disappears and pumping 'flight or fight' adrenaline puts me securely into survival mode.  If memory serves me correctly it is possible I said something like:  " I need you to pull over and STOP NOW".  Then: " I am not paying you R25,000 to die on a road in Nepal; do you talk on the phone and chew and spit pan when the monks are with you?  (that surprised him!)  I need you to put the phone away, spit out ALL of the pan and drive safely... do we understand each other?"  Apparently we did, nevertheless I 'fired' him as soon as I arrived intact at Namobuddha, 'no please do not come to pick me up in three days, and don't call me I'll call you....'

*  Self Developed Mediation Retreat (modified for public consumption)

For sure am happy to talk and talk about my one week experience!   Just ask me.....in person.  It feels too revealing to discuss in detail in the blog.  And way too many thoughts, feelings, and experiences to share in a written form.

FYI  Vegetarian food is not always delicious or nutritionally balanced.  gulp.  That being said, a couple of the luncheon meals at Bhathatpor were really amazing.  Delivered right to my door as follows:  (little bell rings as the guy delivers the food) 7 am Breakfast (spicy beans and a momo) 12 noon, lunch; 3 pm chai tea (unfailingly delish) and 6 pm dinner. 

Retreat Schedule:   up at 6 (or so, the manager is flexable!) reading spiritual material 1 - 3 hours, journalizing 1 - 2 hours and mediation started at 10 minutes, increase by 5 minutes per session minimum 2/day.  After lunch take to the hills!  Walking for several hours on dusty roads, rocky trails and through steep fields.

In my wanderings, I encounter tribal women who are so beautiful, friendly and welcoming, and I accept their invitations to visit at the side of the road or in their front yard.   I feel such sadness and shame when I consistently decline tea and meals. I see the hurt feelings and really feel like.... (you fill in the blanks). I try to explain my delicate North American constitution, I say I must return to the monestary, make a variety of excuses and miserably fail to make them understand.  I just get SO sick if I step out of line with food and water.... The Bali  Shaman is a case in point!  Still it was a very disappointing experience for them and for me.  
I find my way to the tops of hills and see the Himalaya's! The mountains surrounding me fills my heart with such joy!  I love it, love it love it..   I sit alone for hours on the hillside gazing all around me and pledge to return for a serious trekking experience.  Nature provides the perfect worship venue - in my 'view'!  How can you get closer to God or Buddha or whoever is YOUR spiritual presence than here, in the glory and majesty of nature? 

Namobuddha is an incredible experience -  literally thousands of prayer flags and a very well established center with a Health Clinic, huge new Monestary, a school, several housing units for monks, and two guest houses. Population varies with visitors but a guess is around 400.  I am still processing seeing the inside of the  monestary - to be discussed later!).  The days are warm and beautiful with clear skies and pristine air.  The nights are so cold I simply freeze! ughhg. 

Tomorrow:   I say good bye to the two Grade One classes and a few new found friends I've met here.

I've enjoyed my visit - but I feel a lot of sadness not trekking.  Even though I promise myself to return, I still feel a profound loss of experience. No need to feel sorry for me, I am having a pity party all on my own!

Thailand on THURSDAY! Jim in Thailand on THURSDAY!!!!  YIPPPPEEEE

Oops meant to say:  will download photos asap (on Nepal time :) Good luck with THAT!

 Love and Hugs to you!





Saturday, 3 March 2012

Today... Kathmandu Nepal!

SLEEP MARATHON IN PROGRESS....with

1) exhaustion after last 2 weeks travelling in India
2) recovery from a 6 day nasty episode of Traveller's... (cough) 'Tummy'.  Ok just try to spell 'diaharrah'  for heaven sake!  Then admitted defeat and took the 4 day prescribed course of antibiotics, FYI  effective within 24 hours!
3) and freezing cold anywhere but wrapped in 2 quilts and my sleeping bag by 7 pm at night!  I am on the edge of buying a wool toque and mitts.... but I'm going to be in Thailand 90 degree heat in 2.5 weeks!  CAN I tough it out?

Impressions of Nepal:   This is where 'New Age' originated I am SURE, so interesting to be here and feel Old Age Spiritualism... the prayers, chanting, humming, singing, music, red and gold Buddist robes... It has a strong sense of peace and kindness.  Lovely. 

Gone are the days of Indian Men stares, constant Madam, Madam.... buy (everything) please!  beggers crying and reaching out, Indian Men peeing, well pretty much everywhere, and overall total chaos in the cities.  Gone too, the wonderful kindnesses at the most unexpected times, eg lugging 40 lbs up a steep stairway (railway stations) and have a beautifully sari dressed lady, complete with little heels grab hold of the back to heft it up with me! Riding 'coach class' and a peasant family with not one word of English, share their meal.  Being rescued in the middle of a mob in Varansi by a young guy and his friend.  Spending hours with M.M. a young Indian lawyer discussing culture, astrology, religion, the law, and education.  Being (overly) protected on my very first solo train trip - on the platform, woman asking if I needed help, checking my ticket and confirming I am 'ok'. the guys in next berth offering me some of their dinner, and the 'conductor' constantly making sure I had everything possible for my comfort. Yes the positives outweigh the negatives, and as usual my own attitude and barriers are responsible for 90% of the negatives!

So, Nepal! Here we are with a whole different set of challenges and rewards!

* The power is out approximately 50% of the time; water is unavailable occasionally from 30" - 4 hours (I think), and both internet and wifi is undependable, there is no heat in the rooms burrr....

* frustration and grief with my left hip physical limitations - I cannot even go for a walk up a hill never mind on a 2 - 5 day trek.  Thanks to Belle the actual pain and discomfort is minimal if I don't overdo stairs or walking.  It's humbling to accept this in Nepal of all places, the hiker in me is in shock

* turning this around somewhat by thinking .." this is a temporary situation, I am no different than anyone else, so deal with it|? I have arms and legs, I have resourses and I will get better.  I promise myself I will come back to Nepal for a long trek in world famous mountains....  so there! " Ok in all honesty, the 'deal with it' part is not working, acceptance is not one of my easy virtues!

* there are two main treasures Nepal offers me:  Trekking and Spirituality.  One is out and my gift today is to look around and embrace the other.  I am now showing up and paying attention!

WARNING:
The following is Rated 'Only For Those Who Are Interested In (Sherry's) Personal Growth and Spirituality': 

*SMD School - Today I met Tsewang Diki, the 14 year old Grade 7 girl I am sponsoring!  I was upstairs in the office and Chaynga (see below) paged  her.  Within a minute she comes puffing into the office with flushed face she had sprinted down the hall to meet me!   We have a 'Date' on Saturday March 17, we'll go  shopping and out for lunch.   I had a tour of the school yesterday and today met the Vice Principle and Chaynga, a student who is currently working with Shirley (the Director) in the office. He is so excited as he will be studying in Red Deer this Fall for Grade 11 and 12, then on to university. I start working the the kids tomorrow :) :)  warm, cozy and yummy thoughts and feelings! 

*Note:  being around the school makes me miss Braden and Isaiah SO much!  Thank God they have the home and family, the food, the clothing and advantages kids here cannot take for granted.
* The children at the school/orphanage are so well taken care of, loved and fed but only because of SMD. It is not 'normal' for these kids to recieve an education, they are from the 'lowest caste'.

My Itinerary here in Nepal:

* Volunteer SMD School:   March 5 - 8; March 16 - 22

* Bhakapur - Trangu Kha Cho Ling (Buddist) Retreat:  March 9 - 12

* Namo Buddha - Guesthouse Trangu Tashi Yortse Monestary  March 13 - 15

* Depart to Bangkok, Thailand to meet my guy JIM - March 22!!!!!

Yep the standard 'Taj Smile'! and Yes I am totally as happy as I look!

Raja 'The King' in all his glory! Note little ol' me.... insignificant really!

Introducing RAJA!!!!